The Moment I Learned That Action Trumps Waiting for Readiness
- Briana Brookins
- Jan 5
- 3 min read
Updated: Jan 12
There was a time when I believed that feeling ready was the key to starting anything meaningful. I waited for the perfect moment, the right mood, or a surge of confidence that never seemed to arrive. That waiting became a quiet barrier, a hesitation that held me back more than any external obstacle. Then one day, I realized that readiness wasn’t coming, and movement mattered more.
The Weight of Hesitation
Hesitation often feels like a protective shield. It’s the voice that says, “Wait until you know more,” or “You need to be better prepared.” I found myself caught in this loop, convinced that if I just waited long enough, the right feeling would appear. But the truth was, the feeling of readiness was elusive. It was a mirage that shifted every time I thought I’d reached it.
This hesitation wasn’t just about fear of failure. It was also about self-doubt and the pressure to meet an internal standard that felt invisible and impossible. I gave myself permission to pause, thinking it was a form of self-care. But in reality, it was a way to avoid discomfort and uncertainty.
Giving Myself Permission to Move
The turning point came when I stopped waiting for readiness and started giving myself permission to act anyway. I realized that action didn’t require perfect conditions or a flood of confidence. It only required a willingness to begin, even if the first steps felt shaky or uncertain.
Taking that first step was uncomfortable. It felt like stepping into the unknown without a map. But with each small action, I noticed something shifting inside me. The act of moving forward created its own momentum. Confidence didn’t come before the action; it grew from it.
How Action Reshaped Confidence
Confidence, I learned, is not a fixed state. It’s a muscle that strengthens with use. When I acted without waiting for readiness, I discovered that mistakes and uncertainty were part of the process, not signs of failure. Each attempt, no matter how imperfect, built a foundation of experience and self-trust.
For example, I started writing without waiting for the perfect idea or the perfect mood. The first drafts were rough, but they were real. Over time, writing became easier and more natural. The confidence I gained from doing outweighed the fear I had felt from waiting.
Practical Steps to Begin Before Feeling Ready
If you find yourself waiting for readiness, here are some practical ways to start moving:
Set small, manageable goals
Break down your larger goal into tiny steps that feel doable. Starting small reduces the pressure to be perfect.
Accept imperfection
Allow yourself to make mistakes. Imperfection is part of learning and growth.
Create a routine
Build a habit of action by scheduling regular times to work on your goal, even if it’s just for a few minutes.
Reflect on progress
Take time to notice what you’ve accomplished, no matter how small. This helps build confidence.
Seek support
Share your intentions with someone who encourages you. Accountability can make starting easier.
Movement as a Path to Clarity
When I stopped waiting, I found that movement brought clarity. Instead of waiting for a perfect plan or a clear feeling of readiness, I learned by doing. Each step revealed new information and possibilities that waiting could never provide.
This shift changed how I approach challenges. Now, I see readiness as something that emerges through action, not something I must possess before I begin.
What If We Begin Without Certainty?
The moment I stopped waiting for readiness, I opened a door to new experiences and growth. It’s a reminder that certainty is not a prerequisite for starting. Instead, beginning itself can create the conditions we need to move forward.
-Briana Brookins
Your journey matters. I’m growing with you every step of the way.If you want clarity on what comes next, I’m here.
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